Hansel the explorer

  There is a term in social psychology called the  ‘spotlight effect  which refers to our tendency to overestimate how much other people think about us or notice us. The reality is that everyone is so concerned about their own problems/life that they rarely, if ever, spend much time thinking about ours. How many times have you shrunk yourself because you fear being judged or criticized? I have a folder in my laptop where I keep encouraging and uplifting messages for myself. They keep me grounded and focused. I wanted to share one I come back to often because it’s relevant:  Don’t let others stand in the way of your success. There will be many people who will decide you can’t do something. These people are everywhere, and they may feel impactful in the present moment, but they will not matter soon enough as you progress in your journey. This is your life so stop letting other people decide it for you. A lot of us tend to play it safe because we fear failing or being r...

"Unlikely Friends: The Surprising Tale of a Leopard and a Cow Sharing a Home" So I saw this video  The leopard visits this cow at night. You’ll be surprised to learn why! , there are lots and lots of positive comments underneath it.  Look at this video down  Leopards visiting cows at night might seem unexpected, but several reasons could underlie this behavior: Seeking Prey or Food Opportunistic Hunting: Leopards might target livestock as an easy food source, especially if natural prey is scarce in their habitat. Cows can be vulnerable due to their size and relative docility, making them potential targets for opportunistic predators. Environmental Changes Habitat Encroachment: Human encroachment on natural habitats can force predators like leopards to adapt their hunting behaviors. When natural prey diminishes due to human activities, they might resort to targeting domestic animals. Protective Behavior Territorial Marking: Sometimes, predators visit or patrol areas as ...

We humans are the king of creatures who need instant gratification. Think rationally and start creating things without any kind of validation from others. Rule one Be real Then see where you will be in some years We need things much easier and faster. Nowadays, it is more because of social media, watching someone’s successful life, clothing, lavish lifestyle, and expensive watches makes us feel like why not us. Are we different from them? People most often think Why we don’t have the privilege? Are we stupid? Nooooo you are no different than them. We all are the same we have the same capability of doing things. The only things we differ from .. actually I refer to them as successful personalities. They see opportunities and work on them. They never wait for the right moment to come. A famous painter once said That just takes action right away. Don’t wait just start to work. Finding a purpose is the biggest thing in life. What do you want to do? What is your purpose for doing that? ...